A Way Forward

Chemsex Recovery Programme in London and Online

Are you ready to take back control?

You’ve tried to stop before.

You’ve told yourself “this is the last time.”

You’re exhausted by the endless cycle of apps, drugs, sex and shame.

You don’t have to keep living this way.

If Chemsex has become out of control, you’re in the right place.

Recovery is possible. You don’t have to navigate this alone.

Innisfree Therapy provides a specialist Chemsex recovery programme from our Harley Street clinic in London, as well as online throughout the UK. Our confidential programme offers trauma-informed, sex-positive support for gay, bisexual and other men who have sex with men (GBMSM) and the wider LGBTQIA+ community who are ready to break the Chemsex cycle and build sustainable, lasting recovery.

Who We Support

Who is this programme for?

  • Gay, bisexual and other men who have sex with men (GBMSM) who are looking for LGBTQIA+ specialist support.
  • Gay, bisexual and other men who have sex with men (GBMSM) who have tried to stop but keep returning to the familiar Chemsex communities.
  • Gay, bisexual and other men who have sex with men (GBMSM) whose use of crystal meth, GHB/GBL, mephedrone or other stimulants, e.g. cocaine, has become linked with sex and connection.
  • Gay, bisexual and other men who have sex with men (GBMSM) whose dating apps or online sexual encounters are triggering a spiral and relapse.

Understanding the Cycle

How do I stop Chemsex?

Trying harder isn’t usually the answer. Understanding why Chemsex became part of your life is.

Chemsex is rarely just about the drugs. Many gay, bisexual and other men who have sex with men (GBMSM) find that what began as party ‘n’ play (PNP) or a sense of belonging now feels like a risky loss of control coupled with emotional exhaustion.

Over time, Chemsex becomes deeply entwined with connection, coping, sexuality and escape.

As the cycle continues, it can become increasingly difficult to separate intimacy from substances, leaving you feeling trapped in patterns that no longer reflect the life you want.

At Innisfree Therapy, we don’t focus on blame or shame. Instead, we help you explore the underlying trauma, emotional needs and behavioural patterns that keep the Chemsex cycle going, so you can break free and begin building a realistic and supported path to recovery.

Our Programme

What should I expect from a Chemsex recovery programme?

What We Offer

Privacy

Confidential Chemsex recovery

Innisfree Therapy provides confidential Chemsex recovery support in London for gay, bisexual and other men who have sex with men (GBMSM) seeking a non-judgemental, kink-aware space.

Support

Support for GBMSM

Our programme supports gay, bisexual and other men who have sex with men (GBMSM) whose use of crystal meth, GHB/GBL, mephedrone or other stimulants, e.g. cocaine, has become closely linked with sex, intimacy and connection.

Expertise

Trauma-Informed Care

Facilitated by LGBTQIA+ trauma-informed and sex-positive specialist clinicians working from recovery-focused models, our therapists understand the specific psychological grip of Chemsex.

How It Works

Innisfree Therapy Chemsex Recovery Programme

Our Chemsex recovery programme combines evidence-based psychotherapy with practical recovery strategies in a supportive group environment designed for lasting recovery. Clients can choose to join fully online or combine online sessions with in-person weekend work at our Harley Street clinic.

Throughout the programme, you’ll learn how to:

  • Understand the psychological, relational and behavioural patterns that shape Chemsex and identify why Chemsex feels like a survival strategy.
  • Recognise your personal and online triggers as well as high-risk situations.
  • Manage sexual desire and cravings more effectively.
  • Develop practical tools for emotional regulation and relapse awareness.
  • Explore sustainable recovery, either online or in-person, in a safe and confidential group setting.

Even with a strong desire to stop Chemsex, stepping away from a familiar community can be isolating, and you may experience a feeling of disconnection. We’re here for you every step of the way.

The six-week programme includes:

  • Six therapeutic modules.
  • 90-minute online group sessions.
  • Weekend in-person therapeutic work.
  • Specialist LGBTQIA+ clinicians experienced in trauma, compulsive sexual behaviours, sex addiction, porn addiction and Chemsex recovery.
  • A confidential, sex-positive and kink-aware approach for gay, bisexual and other men who have sex with men (GBMSM).
  • Bi-weekly aftercare following completion.

Because the programme operates on a rolling basis, you can begin at any stage and complete all six modules.

Specialist Care

Chemsex treatment in London

Our London-based multidisciplinary clinical team understands the complex relationship between trauma, compulsive sexual behaviours, sexuality, attachment and addiction and what’s driving them.

Chemsex is very difficult for gay, bisexual and other men who have sex with men (GBMSM) to stop on their own. When drugs, dating/hook-up apps, sexual encounters and your social circles all overlap, breaking the cycle can feel next to impossible.

Innisfree Therapy offers a safe space for Chemsex treatment in London where you don’t have to hide who you are or what you’re struggling with. There’s no judgement here. We look at the behaviours to address the real emotional triggers and help you create a sustainable recovery plan that fits your life.

— Mike Power, Addiction Counsellor, Innisfree Therapy

Ready to take the first step to stop Chemsex?

Wondering how to stop Chemsex safely?

Curious if this programme is the right fit for you?

Click below to contact us for a confidential conversation with one of our specialist LGBTQIA+ clinicians and learn how to break the Chemsex cycle.

No judgement. No shame. Speak with a specialist LGBTQIA+ clinician.

Why choose Innisfree Therapy?

FAQs

Frequently Asked Questions

No judgement. No shame. Speak with a specialist LGBTQIA+ clinician.

Meet Our Team

Chemsex Team Bios

Addiction Professionals Registered Member

Mike Power

Mike Power is a qualified addiction Counsellor with a BSc honours degree in addiction counselling from Bath University. Mike is a passionate and results-driven addiction and ChemSex specialist

Mike has a proven track record of supporting persons experiencing substance misuse fused with compulsive sexual behaviours, alongside playing an essential role when engaging with community and residential-focused drug and alcohol treatment services.

He spent three years working in Thailand in an exclusive treatment centre for the LGBTQIA+ demographic. He has an extensive knowledge of working with gay, bisexual and other men who have sex with men (GBMSM) who struggle with ChemSex dependency. During his time in Thailand, he designed and facilitated a specific Chemsex abstinence group for men who have sex with men. This was a much-needed resource and the main reason they chose an LGBTQIA+ specific treatment.

Mike has a strong passion for facilitating interpersonal group therapy alongside psychoeducational groups, which he highly recommends in conjunction with one-on-one therapy, where he utilises trauma-informed, integrated, evidence-based therapeutic approaches tailored to client-specific needs.

Addiction Professionals Registered Member
UK Council for Psychotherapy

Duncan Long

Duncan Long is a UKCP Accredited Clinical Psychotherapist specialising in compulsive ChemSex, with broader experience in addiction, shame, identity, and relationships.

Trained in Psychosynthesis Psychotherapy — an integrative approach that works with the whole person: body, feelings, mind, and a deeper sense of self — his clinical work is trauma-informed and relational. Working collaboratively with clients, he attends closely to the patterns and dynamics that keep people stuck, and creates the conditions in which genuine change becomes possible.

Drawing on his own recovery journey alongside his professional training, he understands firsthand the courage it takes to seek support and begin to change.

He works within an LGBTQIA+ affirmative framework, with a particular focus on the client challenges facing gay, bisexual and other men who have sex with men (GBMSM) around identity, intimacy, and shame.

His priority is to create a space that is warm, honest, and entirely free from judgment — somewhere clients can bring their whole selves without fear, and where difficult material can be held with care and curiosity.

College of Sexual and Relational Therapists (COSRT)

Gianluca Failla

Gianluca Failla is a qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist at Innisfree Therapy, offering individual and group therapy for clients affected by Chemsex, compulsive sexual behaviour (CSB), and related difficulties around intimacy, relationships, shame and emotional regulation. He works with clients presenting with complex sexual and relational concerns, with particular experience supporting gay, bisexual and other men who have sex with men (GBMSM)

Gianluca brings extensive experience from NHS sexual health settings, alongside long-standing experience in the third-sector working with complex presentations involving Chemsex, compulsive sexual behaviour and relational distress. His clinical background is complemented by a strong foundation in health behaviour change, motivational interviewing and harm reduction, which informs his integrative and thoughtful therapeutic approach.

His way of working is relational, sex-positive and trauma-informed. Gianluca is known for creating a safe, non-judgemental and containing therapeutic space where clients can speak openly about experiences that may feel difficult, confusing or stigmatised. He aims to help clients feel understood, respected and empowered, supporting them to develop greater insight, strengthen emotional and sexual wellbeing, and build more authentic and fulfilling relationships.